Does "failure" even exist?​
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Not from a quantum physics perspective...
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The popular narrative is "There's no failure. Only lessons".
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Yes, and...
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This is not immediately practical.
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It sounds great and it feels good.
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But how do you actually believe it?
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May I propose a new perspective...
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⇒ Everything happens in an infinite field of possibility (Quantum physics).
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⇒ Each moment - including moments of "failure" - contains all possibilities of how it can be collapsed from a pure possibility into a specific experience.
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Because by definition possibility already includes everything.
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⇒ And what makes possibility a thing is how we choose to interpret it.
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⇒ Perceiving and interpreting an event or a circumstance as a failure collapses it into that - a failure.
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⇒ Choosing to perceive and interpret an event or a circumstance differently collapses it into a different experience.
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So, really, there are no free-standing failures out there.
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Only perspectives.
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Failure is a perspective.
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So is success.

Having to take action all the time?
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Here's why you have to run 🏃🏻 (I mean "take constant action")...
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Needing to be in action and do, do, do all the time is an avoidance strategy.
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Here's what you are avoiding:
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👉 Having to look at your inner content.
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The thing is you can't run all your life.
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You are going to end up exhausted.
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And always only a millimeter from the edge.
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How do I know?
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I practiced that strategy for decades.
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So I know running 🏃🏻🏃🏻🏃🏻 And I also know this:
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Avoiding your skeletons will always... almost work.
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But it never quite will.
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So, not here to tell you what to do but..
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Here's what to do...
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Jump in.
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What awaits on the other side is a truly powerful "you".
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And a Free You.

True growth work is not sexy

If you hire a coach hoping they'll "fix you" you are in for a big disappointment
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The real work in order of importance:
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1- Ground-level understanding: You are not broken. There's nothing to fix.
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2- The next most immediate work is to find peace with what is (your life).
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3- Next, stop acting against your nature. Get back in alignment
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4- Learn to want cleanly - without attachment/insistence
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5- De-emphasize the intellect. Harness the power of your subconscious mind
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6- Learn how to "listen" to your innate guidance system
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7- Cultivate the "guts" to walk your unique path
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8- Allow the world to sort itself out around your unique "contours"
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9- Embrace your infinite nature and accept the impermanence of your body
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10- Be. Inspire with your unobscured peaceful presence
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This is the real work.
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Everything else is just clever marketing.

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That's it from me today.

Joy-full Sunday 💚

If you are struggling with any of the things I mentioned in this email I can offer help in one of three ways:

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If you are ready feel free to choose one of those three options - whatever you are comfortable with. If not - have a blessed weekend.

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