Reader,
I don't think I've told you this before.
It is important. Listen carefully. It is about how we create our reality.
In as few words as I can:
Trying to fix what you don’t like creates more of it.
It's because your focus stays on what you don't like. And what you focus on you create more of.
Please understand and remember that:
What you say YES to gets created. What you say NO to gets created, too.
Do you know why? Because the universe is inclusive, not exclusive.
Everything you think, believe, feel, anticipate, and are afraid of is always a YES.
Do you now see why you might have manifested stuff you did not want?
It's okay. We are all here to learn. And this is one of the biggest lessons available to us.
Most people will go through an entire lifetime without knowing why - and how - they create their circumstances.
But not you.
Ivan
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